The term bitch is often applied to females who act in an aggressive, domineering and/or unreasonable manner; however, it’s also used with reference to males who are self-serving, submissive and/or cowardly. In other words, when one expresses the negative behavioral traits often associated with the opposite gender, one is (a) bitch.
In this chapter, we will begin to examine the various aspects of gender — the mental aspects as well as the physical (sexual) ones.
Good (and Not-so-Good) Vibrations
Humans are not merely subject to the dictates of animalistic instinct, as are most of the other species with which we share our planet. Not only are our brains the most evolved of the all the animals, but from that evolution has emerged the Mind. All things become manifest as a result of the direction of mind. Two basic mental principles are at work in the process that has resulted in the manifestation of the Bitch Politic, our current state of affairs: i.) Polarity (in this case, negative), and ii.) Gender. Borrowing from the Kybalion (a treatise concerned with the Hermetic sciences), we find the Principle of Polarity described as follows:
“Everything is dual; everything has poles; everything has its pair of opposites; like and unlike are the same; opposites are identical in nature, but different in degree; extremes meet; all truths are but half-truths; all paradoxes may be reconciled.” — The Kybalion.
This Principle embodies the truth that “everything is dual”; “everything has two poles”; “everything has its pair of opposites,” all of which were old Hermetic axioms. It explains the old paradoxes, that have perplexed so many, which have been stated as follows: “Thesis and antithesis are identical in nature, but different in degree”; “opposites are the same, differing only in degree”; “the pairs of opposites may be reconciled”; “extremes meet”; “everything is and isn’t, at the same time”; “all truths are but half-truths”; “every truth is half-false”; “there are two sides to everything,” etc., etc., etc. It explains that in everything there are two poles, or opposite aspects, and that “opposites” are really only the two extremes of the same thing, with many varying degrees between them. To illustrate: Heat and Cold, although “opposites,” are really the same thing, the differences consisting merely of degrees of the same thing. Look at your thermometer and see if you can discover where “heat” terminates and “cold” begins! There is no such thing as “absolute heat” or “absolute cold” — the two terms “heat” and “cold” simply indicate varying degrees of the same thing, and that “same thing” which manifests as “heat” and “cold” is merely a form, variety, and rate of Vibration. So “heat” and “cold” are simply the “two poles” of that which we call “Heat” — and the phenomena attendant thereupon are manifestations of the Principle of Polarity.
And the Principle of Gender is offered as:
“Gender is in everything; everything has its Masculine and Feminine Principles; Gender manifests on all planes.” — The Kybalion.
This Principle embodies the truth that there is GENDER manifested in everything — the Masculine and Feminine Principles ever at work. This is true not only of the Physical Plane, but of the Mental and even the Spiritual Planes. On the Physical Plane, the Principle manifests as SEX, on the higher planes it takes higher forms, but the Principle is ever the same. No creation, physical, mental or spiritual, is possible without this Principle.
Let us for a moment consider the purely mental aspect of these two principles. In the diagram (Figure 1.) below, the relationship between the mental principles of Polarity and Gender as they manifest in human society is depicted:
First, it should be understood that it is the tendency of all things in nature to be attracted toward the Masculine Principle. The Masculine Principle is that which provides the sense of direction (whether positive or negative) to all processes. Terms such as will, motivation, and leadership are often used to describe this influence. This process can be readily seen in situations that are considered to be exclusively masculine in character, such as warfare — in which the force that is possessed of the strongest will is usually the one to prevail.
The work of the Feminine Principle is ever aimed at bringing about the actual manifestation of those things which are instigated under direction by the Masculine Principle. In this case, a woman’s insemination and the pregnancy that ensues will serve as the best example.
In the realm of social order, we must begin to examine the state of mind of those who are positioned to project and impose their will upon others; it is there where we will begin to see the Bitch Politic emerge. As it turns out, it is not one’s physical gender that sets the tone for things, but instead, the strength and polarity of one’s mental gender — particularly with respect to the Masculine Principle. Throughout history, there have been many exceptional women who were possessed of sufficient willpower (masculine mental gender) to cause significant shifts in the course of social events. Their bitchness was an attribute not of their physical gender, but rather one of the negative polarity of their willpower. For example, Joan of Arc was indeed a saint; and Marie Antoinette was indeed a bitch. Not limiting our discussion of historical bitches to women, one would be hard-pressed to think of an individual more representative of bitchness than Adolph Hitler — a fascinating example of a man possessed of an exceptionally strong will, but one that was polarized to the most extreme depravity.
On a much broader scale, humanity has suffered from a dearth of individuals who possess a strong and positively polarized will. Thus, the destructive nature of the prevailing social (patriarchal) will has had the side effect of socializing females toward the development of only the Feminine Principle (receptive) of their mental gender. Perhaps this was a conscious attempt to reinforce the natural receptivity of women’s minds so as to make available their bodies to weak-willed and undisciplined men.
The tendency in nature is not only for the Feminine Principle to seek the Masculine Principle, but also for it to reflect the polarization of the Masculine Principle (will). From the beginning of recorded history, both the Masculine and the Feminine Principles of humans’ mentality have been negatively polarized. This fact is evident by bearing witness to the ceaseless wars in which mankind has been involved. It is also evident in the relatively non-productive manner in which far too many women frequently express their natural receptivity — through whim-driven consumerism and through poorly focused emotionalism.
In the chart (Figure 2.) below, the general state of polarization of the societal mentality is depicted, where the points A, B, & C represent various periods in history (and into the future):
Interestingly, the above chart (Figure 2.) also accurately reflects the potential for women’s relief from continued oppression. However, we must first pass through a very gray area — one in which the potentials for things to go wrong are many:
Form indicates function
Leaving behind, for just a moment, the heady talk of polarization, social structures, etc., it’s now time to take a look at the physical stuff of which we’re made. However, before we move too far, we must first remember that there are indeed direct correspondences between our physical, mental and spiritual realities.
“As above, so below; as below, so above.” — The Kybalion.
We’ve already made mention of how the Masculine Principle of the mind imparts a sense of direction to the Feminine Principle (which itself is ever busy, generating ideas, emotions and the like), so as to command the Feminine Principle to focus its energies upon bringing to fruition a certain manifestation. In the physical realm, the male and female sexes serve analogous roles.
Just as the will of a strong leader penetrates the receptive minds of his army and motivates them to move forward, so too does the male’s penis allow him to penetrate the receptive female. Likewise does the sperm penetrate the ovum, to initiate the process through which the female will focus her energies upon manifesting a new human life. Indeed, as above, so below.
In Genesis 2:24 NASB, we glean the suggestion of manifestation being the result of the joining of will and receptivity:
For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
It is quite fascinating to consider the numbers involved in the process of the fertilization of a human ovum. Transported in the semen that results from a single ejaculation by the male, an army of over 200 million sperm cells is dispatched on the mission to find and fertilize the ovum held by the female. The relative rarity of multiple births (1:89N-1, where N = the number of fetuses carried to term in a single pregnancy) attests to the difficulty of the task of a single sperm cell successfully finding and penetrating the ovum. It’s not an issue of size, as the ovum is between two and twenty times the size of a sperm cell (depending upon whether the motive tail of the sperm is considered):
A human sperm is about fifty-five micrometers (µm) in overall length (head — 5 µm plus 50 µm flagellum). A mature ovum is between 120-150 µm in diameter. So the ratio would be 1:2 or 1:3 if you were comparing length of the sperm to the diameter of the egg.
Nor is it an issue of opportunity, as 200+ million sperm cells (each with a potential lifespan of three to five days) have between twelve and twenty-four hours to find and fertilize the ovum, once it becomes available:
Most of the spermatozoa in the ejaculate are contained in the very first portion of fluid that squirts out of the penis and enters the vagina. The remaining squirts usually contain very little sperm. Thus, at the first moment of ejaculation the female’s cervix (the opening leading into her uterus) is bathed by a high concentration of sperm. Within just a few minutes after ejaculation, sperm begin to invade a very thick fluid (called cervical mucus) that is pouring out of the cervix. The sperm must be able to invade the cervix via the cervical mucus by virtue of their own swimming ability. Nothing about the sexual act will help those sperm get into the cervix. They simply have to swim into the mucus on their own, and this requires a great deal of coordinated, cooperative activity on their part.
Ejaculation is a challenging moment for the sperm, as the vagina presents a very harsh, acidic environment, which would normally immobilize them quickly. The alkalinity of the semen (the fluid that contains the sperm), as well as the alkalinity of the cervical mucus, allows the sperm to survive in this difficult vaginal milieu. Any acidity at all quickly kills sperm.
Yet even the semen is a potentially dangerous milieu for the sperm; any sperm that remain in the semen for more than two hours are likely to deteriorate. In order to survive long enough to get to the egg and fertilize it, the sperm must gain rapid access to the cervical mucus. Any sperm that have not penetrated the cervical mucus within a half hour after orgasm will not be able to do so later on, because by then they will have lost their ability to swim into the more friendly environment of the cervix.
Spermatozoa can be seen invading the cervical mucus within seconds after ejaculation, but most will not make it. Of some 200 million sperm deposited into the vagina near the cervix in a typical ejaculation, only 100,000 ever get into the womb. Thus, over 99.9 percent of the sperm never have a chance of getting beyond the vagina.
Once the sperm enter the canal of the cervix, they are capable of fertilizing the egg for as long as forty-eight to seventy-two hours, though they may actually live for up to six days. Remember, since the egg is only fertilizable for about twelve hours after ovulation, it is important to have a continuing flow of sperm across the tube so that whenever the egg appears, there will be sperm available. In this sense, the canal of the cervix can be looked upon as a receptacle through which platoons of spermatozoa migrate and in which some are detained in order to ensure a continuous supply of smaller numbers, over a prolonged period of time, to the deeper recesses of the female where fertilization takes place.
Granted, the ovum doesn’t wait around for long! However, remember that up to 200+ million sperm cells (each with a mission-life of three to five days) can be searching for this object that’s at least two times their size, at any given moment. Perhaps it’s a matter of the mental Masculine Principle of the successful sperm cell (yes, everything possesses a form of Mind) being of sufficient intensity to afford it the strength to breach the ovum. And perhaps it is the polarization of the Masculine Principle of the sperm cell that is responsible for the various personality traits (whether positive or negative) that are expressed in the human being that results from the ensuing conception. Indeed, it’s a curious issue! Even in our modern, atom-splitting era, researchers are only beginning to penetrate the dynamics of this most fundamental matter:
It’s the stuff of third-grade sex ed: sperm meets egg to make baby. But, surprisingly, scientists have actually been in the dark about one crucial step: how the two sex cells recognize each other amidst the fluid frenzy in the Fallopian tubes. Now researchers have announced that they’ve found the missing piece of this fertilization puzzle, and that the discovery could lead to individualized fertility treatments and hormone-free birth control.
Back in 2005, researchers found the first half of the puzzle: a binding protein on the surface of sperm they called Izumol (after a Japanese marriage shrine). In the decade since then, scientists have been searching for Izumol’s counterpart on egg cells. Essentially, they’d found the plug but couldn’t locate the outlet.
Today researchers at Cambridge announced they’ve found that outlet: a receptor protein on the surface of the egg cell. They’ve found it on the eggs of pigs, opossums, mice and even humans.
Researchers found that the only receptor protein that matched up with the sperm protein was one that had already been discovered and named. Its true purpose had just been misunderstood. The receptor had been previously known as Folr4, and thought to be part of the folate-receptor family.
When researchers put unfertilized eggs in a petri dish and blocked their Folr4 receptors, sperm couldn’t latch on. And when researchers genetically modified female mice to lack Folr4, the mice were sterile.
And what’s even more, the discovery also helps explain how eggs limit themselves to just one sperm invader. By studying eggs fertilized in vitro, researchers found that the Folr4 proteins had all been ejected from the surface of the cell by thirty minutes after fertilization and were floating around the membrane, no longer able to bind with the proteins on the sperm.
Or, perhaps it’s just a case of “the early bird catching the worm.” It’s a curious issue, indeed!
Man is a creature of immediacy. This fact is borne out in man’s unrefined physical (animal) nature — and particularly so with respect to sexuality. With the basic purpose of semen being the instigation of new life, the impulse for the male to ejaculate during sexual engagement is a most urgent one. However, it is an impulse that might best be resisted, for the sake of enabling man to lead the way to a brighter phase of human evolution. It is well known that the ancient Taoists and Tantrics employed seminal conservation and transmutation as a means to strengthen their mental and spiritual abilities. Perhaps it’s high time that we begin to pick up where they left off.
Before we proceed further down that path, let’s take a closer look at the magical fluid that is a man’s semen. Masters Men’s Clinic reports the following:
The sperm that are ejaculated today were produced seventy-five days ago. Sperm make up a rather small portion of the semen that is released during ejaculation. The testicles contribute only five percent of the total volume of semen…
The following paragraphs outline the functions of other male reproductive glands.
The seminal vesicles usually contribute more than half of the seminal volume. Their secretions are particularly rich in a sugar called fructose, which is an essential nutrient for the sperm. They also produce a substance that causes the semen to clot (become sticky or jelly-like) after ejaculation, thought useful in reproduction for keeping the semen at the neck of a woman’s womb (cervix).
The secretions of the prostate gland contain several chemicals, of which prostate specific antigen (PSA) is probably the most important. PSA is an enzyme. The prime function of PSA is to liquefy the clotted semen, so that the sperm can escape from it and swim off to fertilise the egg in the woman’s reproductive tract. Prostate gland cells produce PSA and some of it leaks into the blood stream, as well as appearing in semen. The bigger and more active the prostate gland is, the more PSA appears in the blood…
Bulbourethral (Cowper’s) and Urethral glands
The secretions of these glands lubricate the male reproductive tract.
[It should be noted that other sources report a period of sixty to ninety days for sperm cells to mature in the epididymis (the coiled tubes draped above the testes), after they are produced by the testicles.]
From a source dedicated to the sacred nature of sexuality, we gain still more insight into the composition of semen, as well as its potential utility beyond its recognized role in the instigation of pregnancy:
The semen is a viscid albuminous fluid, alkaline in reaction, which is very rich in calcium and phosphorus, also in lecithin, cholesterol, albumen, nucleoproteins, iron, vitamin E, etc. In the ejaculation of the normal man, about 226 million spermatozoa are given off; these are rich in phosphorized fats (lecithin), cholesterol (the parent-source of sex hormones), nucleoproteins and iron. An ounce of semen is considered to be equal in value to sixty ounces of blood, of which it constitutes an extract of some of its most valuable of constituents, as far as its vitalizing power is concerned. Dr. Frederick McCann remarks on this point, “From what has been stated it must be admitted that the spermatic fluid does possess potentialities justifying the belief of ancient writers concerning its vital properties.”
The semen contains substances of high physiological value, especially in relation to the nutrition of the brain and nervous system. If resorption of semen through the wall of the female genital tract has a vitalizing effect on the female organism, the same should be the case in the body of the male in which it is formed and conserved. And conversely, loss of semen must deprive the organism of vitality and valuable substances necessary for the nutrition of nervous tissue, such as lecithin, which has been used therapeutically with great success for the cure of neurasthenia resulting from sexual excess. — Raymond W. Bernard MD
It is no secret to anyone (male or female) who’s had even a modicum of experience in the sexual arena that males suffer a noticeable depletion of vitality following ejaculation. Slowly, but surely, Western science is beginning to embrace the potential that the wisdom of the ancient Taoists and Tantrists was correct with respect to the harm that is visited upon the male through unnecessary loss of seminal fluid. It is man’s lack of knowledge as to the extent of his sexual immaturity that leads to his weakness — and more often than not, to degeneration that results in premature death. Author Samael Aun Weor explains: 
The zoo-sperms that are produced in the third testicular layer ascend by the adjacent testis and continue along the spermatic cord towards the seminal vesicles, until they reach the prostate.
It is most interesting to know that those zoo-sperms become electrified as they ascend through the spermatic cords. They gradually become charged with a lot of electricity, and what is even more interesting is that they become magnetized, so to speak, from south to north; that is, they work like a compass, south-to-north; they also orientate themselves towards the north, being electrified, magnetized…
It is most interesting to see how they pass from one small vessel to another, climbing through the spermatic cords, until they reach the seminal vesicles, where the sperm is purified even more (all those zoo-sperms), until they reach the prostate, where there is a very important chakra. Obviously, the Svadisthana chakra, which is fundamental for the mastery of sexual transmutation, is located there. Sexual transmutation is based on the prostate. The prostatic chakra is, therefore, most important, and most interesting.
That sperm becomes totally purified. It becomes completely radioactive, it becomes completely electromagnetic… [This is what impels the male to utilize it: i.e., the sexual drive or libido.] And with transmutation, it turns into energy.
With transmutation, the zoo-sperms break down into hormones, which go through the membranes and finally enter the blood, actively stimulating the glands of inner secretion. They make them work in an extraordinarily intensive way. Then the hormones ascend, they continue on their way to the brain. There they activate the brain areas that do not work anymore, that are degenerated; they make all the brain cells dynamic and activate certain powers latent in man, etc.
Unfortunately, and this is the most serious thing, my dear friends, people are degenerated. Vulgar, ordinary men do not let the zoo-sperms rise to the prostate — not even for a second: they eliminate them from the sperm sacks to satisfy their brutal impulses.
Refinement of the male’s basic physical sexual abilities is necessary before we can even begin to think of such things as sexual transmutation (through which sexual energy is converted into life-sustaining energy). For the male, refinement involves the development of the ability to quell the urge to ejaculate. Afforded the ability to prevent the loss of seminal fluid, one also benefits from the conservation of the enormous amount of subtle energy that is contained therein. We will delve more deeply into the particulars of the methods of refinement in subsequent chapters.
Absent the explicit intention to instigate the creation of a new physical being, there is no justifiable reason for the male to emit his semen — even despite the overwhelming urge to do so during sexual intercourse. In fact, retention of semen provides the male with the very fuel that is necessary for the strengthening of his mental will (Masculine Principle), which in turn enables him to bring about greater receptivity in the female. Simply put, if the male is not weakened by ejaculation, he can better direct the female toward her satisfaction; and beyond…
At this point, I must admit to being somewhat at a loss. So mysterious is the nature of the feminine vehicles that I cannot sincerely offer any insights into their inner workings that would be credible. The best that I can do is to offer observations of the results of encounters with feminine creativity, treating those results as having emerged from a sort of black box — one whose inner workings and processes often defy apprehension.
Counter to the seeming impatience of the man, the nature of woman is long-suffering. This is in keeping with her naturally designated role of receptivity, and the requirements of the task of manifestation. The processes of creativity, development and manifestation require not only resources, but also time and focus (the provision of the latter of these being the responsibility of the male). Pregnancy serves as the most fascinating example of the adaptive potentials of the feminine design. Because there are volumes of learned documentation regarding the wonders attending pregnancy, I need not regurgitate those details here. However, two aspects of the feminine design that become particularly evident during the processes of pregnancy are: i.) Woman’s desire to be “filled,” and ii.) Woman’s high level of endurance. In a purely sexual context, woman’s high level of endurance is expressed as a significantly longer period for her arrival at a state of satisfaction, as compared to a man.
Just as there are challenges of sexual refinement for the male that have yet to be widely recognized (and unfortunately, they might never be), so too are there challenges of sexual refinement for the female. Although the challenges for the male are quite evident, the challenges for female are much more subtle; however, for both, the challenges stem from the same root. In the modern era, where talk of a woman’s right to experience orgasm has come to be rather commonplace, the discussion is fraught with unrecognized fallacies. The most important of these fallacies derives from the mistaken idea that ejaculation and orgasm are identical processes in the male. They are not. But, that common misunderstanding fuels so much of women’s anxiety about their own sexuality.
Unfortunately, until the deeper social issues of education of the male regarding his sexual responsibilities are resolved, it is probable that many women will continue to search in vain for satisfaction from intercourse. In a relatively recent article, actually written by a woman, yet another ludicrous scheme as to how women might achieve “orgasmic parity” with men is offered:
First came the G-spot, then multiple climax and spiritual tantric sex. The modern woman is not only expected to be a good mother and a professional success, but some believe she needs to behave like a porn star in the bedroom.
So if a simple device could reveal whether a woman is capable of a vaginal orgasm, would it take the pressure off heterosexual women to perform?
New research suggests that a simple measurement — a “rule of thumb” — might be the key to the pleasures of sexual intercourse.
About seventy-five percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone — that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And ten to fifteen percent never climax under any circumstances.
The Internet is rife with non-orgasmic women who say they are missing out, and statistics suggest that they are a significant group.
“Maybe my boyfriend and I aren’t doing it right or something,” one woman wrote on WebMD.com. “I don’t understand. I feel like less of a woman because I can’t have an orgasm and I want to so bad. I feel incomplete sometimes after sex.”
“I enjoy sex, my partners enjoy the sex,” said another on EmpowHER.com. “The guy I’m with right now is frustrated because he’s never had a problem making a women happy until now, and it’s frustrating for me because I just don’t understand.”
“What’s wrong with me?” asks another on Steadyhealth.com. “I never told anyone this before, but I feel like this is my only option as I am too shy to go to the doctor’s.”
But it might not be all in their heads, according to Kim Wallen, professor of behavioral neuroendocrinology at Emory University.
He wants to determine if a woman’s ability to have an orgasm with penile stimulation alone depends on how far her clitoris lies from her vagina — the so-called “C-V distance.”
Wallen said understanding more about a woman’s anatomy might enhance her sex life.
“I suspect that for a large proportion of women, orgasm from intercourse alone is just never going to happen and knowing that might give women some solace.”
The sad thing about the current state of affairs between women and men is that their encounters with each other have come to be viewed as performances. The article continues:
Four years ago, Wallen set out to do a well-controlled modern study with the collaboration of Elisabeth Lloyd, a professor of history, philosophical science and biology at the Indiana University.
Lloyd’s study of eighty years of previous sex research in her 2005 book, “The Case of the Female Orgasm,” debunked theories that there is an evolutionary reason for the female orgasm.
She determined the female orgasm is merely a byproduct of the male orgasm, as both sexes share the same genital nerve tissue in the fetal stage.
“It is perfectly normal not to have orgasms and there were lots of women in evolutionary time who had no orgasms and it had no impact on their fertility,” said Lloyd.
Current studies bear this out, according to the researchers: ninety-eight percent of men say they “always” reach orgasm during sex, while women are “evenly distributed” between “always and never.”
Sexual Pleasure in Women Not Evolutionary
“It’s clear the male orgasm is strongly selected and it makes sense,” said Wallen. “If they don’t reach orgasm, they don’t leave offspring.”
To look at the question in reverse, women have a strong evolutionary selection for nipples — without them their babies would die, according to Wallen. However, nipples serve no biological purpose in men.
In analysis of the Bonaparte data, the researchers first had to reframe the question. Instead of asking, “Do you have orgasm during intercourse?” they created a “more explicit survey” asking if manual or oral stimulation had been involved.
After analyzing data from 100 female volunteers, ranging from eighteen to sixty [years old], they found about eleven percent said they always have orgasm during intercourse and the same number said they never climaxed.
The above article is based upon the common fallacy that ejaculation and orgasm are synonymous processes for the male. In reality, ninety-eight percent of men have probably never experienced orgasm. And even for the two percent who have, the experience is not at all a regular occurrence. Far from being an experience from which one emerges weakened and depleted (as is the case when a man ejaculates), true orgasm is a strengthening experience — one in which the deeper levels approach cosmic dimensions. True orgasm is a literal binding of the Feminine Principle that resides in the female with the Masculine Principle that resides within the male. Having experienced such on but a few occasions in my own lifetime, I would imagine that it is the rare human who could sustain a regular diet of deep orgasm and still be able to function normally in this world. At the same time, regular sexual intercourse (without the deeper levels of orgasm) can still add enrichment to one’s life, provided that the male is able to forestall ejaculation until after the female has achieved a satisfactory level of “fullness.”
Dearest ladies, despite that which the world would have you believe, fear not — there is probably nothing at all wrong with you!
Just as no leader who’s actually worthy of the designation would issue commands to his followers and subsequently abandon them in mid-mission, a male should not abandon his feminine partner in the midst of their journey to Love. Remember, it is the role of the Masculine Principle to impart will and direction — to give, until the journey is complete for all. It is the role of the Feminine Principle to create, to manifest; and here, only receptivity is necessary.
Sexuality is very serious business! It must be borne in mind that whenever male and female meet, something will be created. Even if there is no physical result (as in a pregnancy, or the unfortunate transmission of a disease state), something will become manifest. The creations that manifest through sexual intercourse are spiritual beings; and the polarity of these spirits is determined by the polarity of the parties to the encounter. And these spirits don’t manifest and then simply vanish into the ethers; instead, they integrate themselves into the spirits of the people who created them. Know that!
To fear, or not to fear
One must be mentally attuned toward the creation of something. By nature, the Feminine Principle is in the business of creation and manifestation; and Her abilities are boundless. Already, the Feminine Principle is naturally attuned toward the Masculine Principle. It is thus the responsibility of the Masculine Principle to attune itself to the exigencies of the Moment, so as to provide Direction to the creative efforts of the Feminine. In so doing, the Masculine Principle must seek to maintain an intuition of the potentials of any given moment, while maintaining awareness of the overarching principle that all things in nature tend toward the positive.
Fear is a negative polarization of the will, oriented toward destruction. When fear influences sexual encounters, in any manner, that which is created will be negatively charged. The most extreme examples of this dynamic are instances of rape, in which the male’s destructive impulse forces the woman to receive, in spite of her desires to completely shut down her natural receptivity. In such an instance, both the male and the female begin the encounter with an intensely negative charge; and things only go from bad to worse. It’s evident that all manner of negativity becomes manifest, following such an encounter.
However, in the much more common instances where the male is afraid that his performance will be sub-par during a consensual encounter, the usual result is also negative. In this case, often the female’s response to the male’s negativity is for her to begin to doubt her own abilities. This is in fact the current climate of relations between male and female, although it is indeed an improvement upon the past. Unlike the climate in times past, now many males are at least somewhat willing to give voice to their feelings of inadequacy (although most still don’t know what to do about it). Remember, the natural tendency of the Feminine Principle is to follow the polarity of the Masculine Principle…
The above having been offered, it’s always best to not fear. If fear is present in oneself, or perceived in another, it’s best to avoid sexual contact.
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